Guys, look! A little jiggle! You can see her skin bunch up when she moves! She looks real and healthy! And you know what else? She looks damn fab.

Everyone looks real. There’s no way to not look real.

And you can’t tell how healthy someone is by looking at them - and if she didn’t look healthy, so what? 

It’s awesome that there has been some more diversity in body sizes, but let’s remember:

1. There’s no need to disparage other bodies to compliment someone.

2. This isn’t actually much of a step forward. Over-congratulating corporations for their small tokens doesn’t incentive them to change their policies.

(Source: plussizeebony)


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*~Free Figure Revolution’s Body Posi Rally at VCU!~*
[Here’s the entire album of amazingness!]



Your body is not wrong, society is. I went out on my college campus to promote for my body positivity organization and to spread a little love to the world! ♥

I tell people this all the time.

I am not a skinny girl trapped in a fat body. My body is not “extra weight” or over my allotted allowance of size that I was meant to be. I am fat and probably always will be fat.

I have given up on the fantasy. The fantasy of having a different body. The fantasy of being thin. I used to have this reoccurring daydream that I was granted any wish I wanted, and my first one was to be thin and have long hair. Or anytime I saw a flat stomach, I would spend days thinking what it would be like if that was my body.

Now I can draw my own form without looking and don’t project other people’s bodies on my own. I feel like I am finally a tidy package, instead of this tall, fat, awkward disjointed person that I used to be. It took years for me to stop seeing myself as a potential thin person. To stop sucking it in and squinting at the mirror to see what I thought I wanted to see. Now I look at myself naked and I feel like a whole person. I feel like every inch of my body belongs to me and this is what I am supposed to fucking look like.

For the first time ever, deviantfemme revealed.

…She’s fat!

…She’s femme!

…She’s not giving any fucks!

The reality is that fat people are often supported in hating their bodies, in starving themselves, in engaging in unsafe exercise, and in seeking out weight loss by any means necessary. A thin person who does these things is considered mentally ill. A fat person who does these things is redeemed by them. This is why our culture has no concept of a fat person who also has an eating disorder. If you’re fat, it’s not an eating disorder — it’s a lifestyle change.
Truths for Fat People


written by a fat person.

  1. You are beautiful.  Not always and not to everyone, but we are all beautiful and deserving of love. 
  2. You do not have justify your body to anyone.  Not to your family, your friends, your doctor, your partners.  It is your body.  No one else’s.
  3. You are allowed to take up space.  Use the world around you to your advantage.  Be present in the world in as much space as you need to feel comfortable and safe.
  4. You are more than your body.  You have emotional, spiritual, and mental worth.  People might see your body first, but everything else about you matters just as much.
  5. You are allowed to change your body if you want to.  You can gain or lose weight if it is your choice to do so.  No one should shame you for either choice.  You are also allowed to keep your body exactly the way it is right now, in this moment.
  6. You are allowed to be angry over fatphobia.  You do not have to sit quietly and let those around you make you feel bad for your size.  You can be angry, resentful, hurt, sad.  You can speak out against fatphobia.  You can reject diet and weight loss talk if you do not want to hear it.
  7. You can use the word fat.  If you feel fat, you can use the word fat.  You can reclaim it as a positive.  You can use fat as a descriptor.  No one can tell you that you are too small to use it.  If it is part of who you are, do what’s best for you.
  8. You can love other fat people.  You can make fat and fat ally communities.  You can surround yourself with positive forces.  You can make fat love.  You can fat love yourself.
  9. You can wear what you want.  Crop tops and short shorts.  Mumus.  Tutus and ties.  It is up to you.  Don’t let societal pressures like ‘flattering’ dictate your outfits.
  10. You can be fat.  That is good.  That is ok.  That is a celebration. 
: I’ve been told my entire life that my body is wrong. I’ve been told my...


I’ve been told my entire life that my body is wrong.

I’ve been told my entire life that I am ugly.

I’ve been told my entire life that I do not deserve love, and that even if I did, I would not find it.

I’ve been told my entire life that I’m not supposed to look this way.

I’ve been told my…

Sometimes, loving your body is not an option. Sometimes, the best we can do is accept our bodies as the changeable, beautiful, frustrating vessels they are. That’s OK. Expecting yourself to have a full-on love affair with your body at all times is asking too much. Bodies are occasionally annoying. What we can do is know them, and decide for ourselves when they feel good, and when they feel less good, and what we might do to make them feel better again. Even if we can’t love our bodies, we can make sure we don’t hate them.

Start a revolution.Stop hating your body.


Start a revolution.
Stop hating your body.



I was scoping out these cute pictures Katie took of Alli and I from Alli’s etsy. I love working with ALLIHALLA ‘cause bootymeats of all shapes and sizes are used for modelling. Everyone wears clothes, and I am always glad when designers don’t ignore that fact.

Plus size femmes are always told to avoid horizontal stripes. 
This is some sort of fashion “law” for fat womyn. 
Fuck flattering. Wear what you want. 

Plus size femmes are always told to avoid horizontal stripes. 

This is some sort of fashion “law” for fat womyn. 

Fuck flattering. Wear what you want.