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I’m not sure how devoted to this I will be, or what exactly it will become, but because I pretty much loathe every wedding site I’ve found, I decided to make femmewedding.tumblr.com
I’m hoping it will include pretty pictures, queers of all sorts, & non-traditional wedding ideas/advice, including things like:
- How to Have a Non-Binary Wedding (Or: Avoiding Being Asked Which One of You is the Bride)
- Your Heterosexist/Homophobic Cousin: How To Decide Who To Invite to Your Queer Wedding
- Super Femme Wedding Dresses for People of All Sizes
- How Not to Appropriate Someone Else’s Culture in Your Wedding Ceremony
It’s important to me that this will avoid the normal sexist, heterosexist, cissexist, racist, ableist, sizeist bullshit that often accompanies most other wedding sites.
Also, as the name suggests, It will be geared towards cis & trans* femme brides, but allies are always welcome. :)
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Calico is one of those people I met in the last few years who I can’t imagine living without. She’s gorgeous, brilliant, and funny, and she’s so easy to be with that I find myself exhausted from smiling. She makes me happy in a million ways.
Also, she’s insanely hot. In case you didn’t notice.
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viviopsis said: *hug* lots of self-care? and glitter?
tomorethanonedimension said: Write. Write. Write. Masturbate. Flirt with strangers. Go for a run.
littlemissgg said: buy really expensive shoes, eat rich food, drink good red wine, masturbate, take a hot bath, paint your toe nails, then look in the mirror and know that you make hundreds of people feel good about their whole lives just by being you. <3
misslilamae said: Get dressed up for everyday things. Spend a whole day just playing with your makeup. Paint your nails, something garish with glitter. Buy yourself something gratuitous, that you know you’ll enjoy. Go for a bike ride & picnic under a tree. <3<3<3
kjdawson80 said: The only things I have are “Fake it till you make it” and/or “Be the person you want to meet” :/ They can help, though.
goth-muffin said: I have been feeling really similarly. I started a new creativity project (one of Julia Cameron’s books) and it seems to be helping. You are A+ super fantastico (but I know that sometimes hearing that doesn’t actually help).
femmethings said: you are amazing <3<3 here are my suggestions: theatre/any art, new lipstick/nail polish, lots of tea, a new erotica book, some comfort tv/relaxation time! feel better.
grrrljuice said: Sometimes all you need is a self love day. Or treat yourself to something that you’ve been lusting after (I recently bought a sweet feminist tote,and books that helped me). Hugs if you want them <3 And just remember that you’re fucking fabulous
